I never thought I would be so excited about maintaining a blog, yet here I am again! I am constantly thinking of things to write about and thinking of new things I can get into just so I have material to write about. Although I wish I had a talent for writing similar to Hank Moody’s, or more realistically, skills like my roommate, Byong, I didn’t think I had it in me to be so inspired and passionate about blogging. My insecurity of my lack of eloquent wordings took over me for a while until I managed to somehow get over it. I realized that I created this blog for myself, not only to pick up a new hobby, but to write about good and positive things, new experiences, and any other random thing that comes to mind, as long as it wasn’t negative. So far, it has been a good starting point for me to exercise positive vibes, in hopes to erasing bitterness that I’ve been wanting to get rid of.
“The only time a woman is ready for a man is when she doesn’t need one.”
One day last week, as I was day dreaming about all the possible things I could start writing about, I thought about trying to incorporate a weekly goal for myself. Not only would this weekly goal help me get things done, it would also be fun to write about it here! Genius idea!! At least I thought it was. So I set up parameters. My weekly goals would have to be a goal or task that changes every week. The goal should be completed before every Monday morning. The difficulty or complexity of the goal can vary. I wasn’t concerned if they were life changing goals or simple goals such as drinking one cup of water a day. My only concern was that is should be something I could commit to for one week, follow through, and cross it off my list.
This week I decided my first goal for week 1 would be to finish this book I was half through. I have a bad habit of picking up books, reading half of the book, then suddenly losing interest. I called it halfway book syndrome. I have tons of books I started but can’t say I finished. So there it is. I made a spreadsheet for my weekly goal, put it in writing, and set a deadline at the end of the week to finish reading “A Piece of Cake” by Cupcake Brown. I finished it and I feel great! The book itself was really inspiring. Cupcake’s story was moving and at times hard to read. There were several instances where I hated her character. I was sick of her attitude and I couldn’t stand reading another word about her life. I finally got over the worst of her life story and it became promising and uplifting. It’s a good book. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is looking for a good read.
As I thought about this goal making project of mine, I opened up to Michael to see if he would like to join me in the challenge.
He was definitely up to it, so we talked about what his goal would be for himself, and also a weekly goal for us to do together. I was overly excited that I came up with ideas and lists in my head.
Together we decided that we will set a night out of the weekend to make dinner together (something we normally wouldn’t make) and find a nice bottle of wine that we both haven’t tried.
Coincidentally, Michael had just signed up for the CSA (Community Supported Agriculture) Program in Silverlake and came home with a good amount of fresh, organic vegetables. He suggested we make homemade pizza (since I suggested a couple months ago that I wanted to try that for the first time).
OMG, the pizza was DELICIOUS! We made a prosciutto, tomato, basil, and mozzarella pizza.
With the pizza, we had a salad and Stanza’s petite Sirah wine and it was soooooooo good too!! It was definitely a fun night. We talked, learned new things about each other, laughed, cried (at least I did), ate more, got ice cream at Scoops, talked more, played poker with Monopoly $1′s and $5, and ended the night with WAR (the card game) and another empty bottle of Fetzer’s cabernet singing along to one of our favorite songs, “Woman in Chains” by Tears for Fears.
We had the biggest WAR battle ever! FOUR war battles in a row!!! That made our night.
I’m excited for next week’s goal. I love it!




































