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WHAT. AN. EXPERIENCE! As much as the weather wasn’t my ideal preference for running, or even being outside really, I honestly don’t have any regrets for deciding to make this marathon my very FIRST.  What can I say?  I LOVE LA!  Traffic, potholes, unexpected hurricane weather, you name it.

So here it is.  My shiny medal.  I shed tears for this bad boy, no joke.  It was quite a journey to the finish line, but it was ALL WORTH IT!

The first couple miles, I was cheerful, feeling optimistic, feeling good, and proud of myself, but when mile 6 and 7 came, the rain was coming down hard.  In my head, I was thinking, “Are you kidding me?  Are you really?”  Still trying to be optimistic, I hoped the rain would let up, but it didn’t.  It was a steady downpour and there was nothing I could do but keep going.

One thing I am MOST grateful for is my support group.  Erin, Jaylyn, Johnboy and Byong!!  Then there was also Michael, Erickson, and Kyle who came out on bikes and took photos of us along the entire course.  I am SO lucky to have great friends!  They were there every step of the way even till I crossed the finish line!

As soon as I saw the finish line coming up, my mood suddenly changed.  I suddenly felt so serious.  I didn’t feel like talking to my friends who were running with me, I just wanted to focus on what was standing right in front of me.  In my mind, wheels were turning, a reflection period began, and my body and mind started to think of what started this all,…why was I running this marathon?  My dad.  A victim of cancer.  Right!  I did all this to run in honor of my dad.  2011 marks his 10 year anniversary of being away from me and my family.  I thought to myself, “Man, time flies…and I can’t believe I’m about to fly right through this finish line!!!”  Immediately, tears came down as hard as the rain and I had NO control over it, so I just let go.  I didn’t care about the photographers and my finishing photo, and I didn’t see anyone around me.  But I heard Byong yelling, “You can do it Grace, almost there, you can do it! C’mon, don’t give up!”  And just like that, I stepped over the finish line, and it was all over.  Ahhhh!!!  What a relief!  It felt so good to cry and hug my very wet friends.

My mom surprised me and came out to Santa Monica.  She toughed out the rain and was waiting for me at the finish line!  I was so happy to see her but I felt so bad taht she was standing in the storm for a good hour just to see me finish.  I actually found her standing there by accident!  I love my mom for being so strong these past years without my dad, and I love her even more for coming to support me, despite the horrible weather conditions.  She looked cute and miserable at the same time, standing in the rain, wrapped in a large plastic bag.  Thanks mom!  Seeing you waiting for me meant a great deal!

To give you a better idea of what the weather was like that day, here’s a clip of what we had to run through.

CRAZY!

Thanks again to my friends who came out to support.

And, thank you so much to those who helped me raise money to donate to Think Cure charity!

Greg Yip, Vivian McWilliam, Tweetie Nguyen, Bo Zalalerio, Chris Saavedra, Jharvis Licera, Sam and Myrriam Cardinal.

So when’s the NEXT marathon?? :)

Here’s a better question: Would I run another marathon?  YES!  And I think it will be LA!!  Gotta have a do over!!!


P.S. I am LOVING my LA MARATHON jacket!  Totally worth it! :)

When I made a final decision into fully committing to running the Los Angeles Marathon, I knew training would take up a lot of my time. Between running weekly, eating and drinking healthier, and spending money on more gear, it’s amazing how my life is revolving around the marathon. Imagine this…less shopping at Forever 21 and less late nights at a bar being hammered. Instead, it’s more like only drinking water or gatorade, and shopping at running stores.  But I’m not complaining.  I actually enjoy being in training.  It’s gives me something to do, it’s healthy, it disciplines me to wake up early, it brings me closer to my friends, and it is a great accomplishment.

Anyway, I have to give most of the credit to my good friend, Erin, and my co-worker, Greg, who really motivated me to run LA.  If it weren’t for you two, honestly, I wouldn’t have signed up.  So thank you. :)

The big day is ALMOST here!  I can’t believe that March came by so quickly.  Wasn’t it just December when I was so shocked at myself for signing up for my first marathon?  I wish my dad was around to cheer me on.  After all, I am running this marathon in honor of him.  Thank you again to all my friends and family who have helped me raise money for Think Cure.  Everyone who donated to my fundraiser has inspired me to train to my best potential.  I can’t thank them enough for the support!  I am so blessed! :)

Well, here I go, rain or shine…..26.2 miles.  Hopefully, I will still be able to jump in the air as I cross that finish line.  I’ve come this far already,…I won’t let anything get in the way of me and that finish line.

Good luck to Erin and Jaylyn, who are also running the LA marathon!

Thank you to Michael, Erin, Johnboy, Byong, Kyle, Creese, Gio, and Jaylyn for helping me with my training runs! :)   You are the BEST!

P.S. I can’t wait to cut my hair and I’m anxious to cross “full marathon” off my bucket list.

Running.  How did it become such an addicting activity?

I was never a great runner.  I was always one of the last ones when running the 50 yard dash for P.E. in elementary school.  Running to warm up for tennis was never a favorite of mine, and I was still one of the last ones to finish.  I hated it, I dreaded it, and I would avoid running like it was the bubonic plague.  But now, not a week will go by without talking to someone about what race is next to add on the 2011 running list.  It’s the new “what’s going on this weekend?” discussion.  Instead of asking friends, “Hey, any good parties going on this week?”, it’s more like, “So how many miles are we running this weekend.”  :P

SO TRUE!

Anyway, I’m not complaining.  I’m glad I’ve picked up this new love for running and participating in 5ks, half marathons, and full marathons.  I’m still not as fast as the others, but that is OK.  I will get there some day.  Anyone can run.  And it’s not a competition against your friends to see who can run the fasted race, or what not, but it’s about how far you have come along in your running since you first started.  And you don’t need anyone to tell you that you are improving, you have the numbers to tell you that, and we all know that numbers don’t lie.  :)

I am proud to say that since I started running, which was January of 2009, my run time has improved by a lot.  I probably started at a 12-13 minute mile on average, and today, I am averaging 10:30-11 minute miles.  I am definitely proud of that accomplishment, and I hope to keep climbing.

One thing I must say,…I have the greatest friends in the world. They have been such a positive influence on me, and without them I would have never started this at all.  I was SO sure that I wouldn’t last one or two miles and I would be the last person in races being picked up by the “sorry you are running too slow” truck, but they believed in me and helped me throughout every training run.

It’s 10 miles for me this Sunday, and I am going to smash it…..and then eat a dozen donuts and totally defeat the purpose of running 10 miles. :P

Word!

I can’t believe I ran 8 miles on Christmas morning, but I am glad I did.  The original plan was to run the day after Christmas, but the weather man told us that it would rain on the 26th.  Erin had to run 20 miles for her Arizona Marathon training, so Michael, Creese, and I decided to help Erin out and split up the mileage so Erin wouldn’t have to run 20 miles by herself.

It was a beautiful day in Santa Monica.  It was also nice to see other people running along the beach with us.  Creese and I ran the first 8 miles with Erin starting from Shutters hotel all the way to the jetty, past Venice beach, and Michael ran the last 12 miles with her.  I felt pretty comfortable with our running pace, and I didn’t think we were going any faster than what I was used to.  Turns out that we were averaging an 11 minute mile pace!  I was really happy to find that I was able to hold that for 8 miles.  The one thing I really enjoyed about our Christmas day run was that other runners were saying good morning and Merry Christmas as we passed by.

I have no idea how bird droppings got onto my clothes, but I found this after the run.  Gross!  It smelled too.  =T

While waiting for Erin and Michael to finish 12 miles, I rewarded myself with a glazed donut.  Mmmm, it was so good.  And it felt great to get that run out of the way.  I was definitely ready for Christmas. :)

I admit that I am still nervous about the LA marathon.  I still don’t know how I will be able to muster up super strength to finish 26.2 miles, but if I keep up with the training, I don’t think it will be as bad as I think it is.

My training for the LA marathon has officially started!!  Wish me luck, and please check out my LA marathon fundraising page!

Merry Christmas!!

– From future marathon runner, Graceface:)

Day 27- Why am I doing this 30 day challenge

I’m doing this because Irma said it would be fun.  :)   It is fun.  I’m learning a lot about myself and making people feel special by writing about them. Haha ;)

Day 28- A picture of me last year and now, how have I changed since then?

April 2009

In the past year, I learned to overcome my bitterness.  Since then, I’ve been so much happier. :)

November 2010

Day 29- In this past month, what have I learned
- I learned how to take photos with a manual camera. :)

-  I learned how to forgive…again.

-  I learned how to control my alcohol intake.

-  I learned how to be very resourceful. :P

-  I learned how to seize opportunities.

Here are a couple photos I took of Michael & Joe’s triathlon.  I figured out the manual settings all by myself!!!  I’m happy I’m finally getting the hang it!! :)

Day 30- Who am I?

I’m a procrastinator. :)   BUT, I finished my 30 day project on time!

Anyway…..

I want to continue be a better person.

I yearn to belong.

I hate stupid girls.

I loathe “gLee”.

I hope for success and no regrets.

I love my friends and family.

I fear that I won’t be good enough.

I like to learn about other people.

I give more than I take.

I am always growing.

:)

OK, I am WAY behind!!! :(   Obviously I had more important things than keeping up with my project.  Eeeek!

Day 20- Someone you see yourself marrying/ being with in the future

Wow, straight up.  Well, I can’t lie to myself and say I don’t see Michael in my future, otherwise, why are we still together then?  Right?  So hopefully we are both in it till the end, God willing.

 

Day 21- A picture of something that makes you happy

FOOD!  Especially FREE food!

Grace is grumpy?  Feed her with some food!

Grace is bored?  Feed her with some food!

Grace is moody?  Feed her with some food!

:)

 

 

 

 

 

Day 22- What makes you different from everyone else

I am not ashamed to say that my poo smells.

Done. Next?!

 

Day 23- Something you crave for a lot

Oh this is easy.  Expensive caffeine.  I don’t know why but it’s SO addicting and although it burns holes in my wallet, I make necessary sacrifices to make sure I get my daily dose.

 

Day 24- A letter to your parents

Dear Mom,

I’m sorry I’m not the best daughter you want me to be.  I will try harder to make you happy and proud.  I will visit you more often because I know we never know what is going to happen next.  I love you and I will see you soon.

Love,

Grace

Day 25- What I would find in your bag

iPhone 4, keys, flash drive, girly necessities, hand sanitizer, wallet with NO money, check book, pen, chapstick, and eye drops.
Day 26- What you think about your friends


I think my friends are the greatest friends I could ever ask for.  They are super intelligent, frikken hilarious, and cool as ever.  I’m glad I have such great taste in friends.  :)

 

Another picture of me and my friends

I love my girlfriends.  We have the funniest conversations when sober, and even funnier when drunk.

:)

A picture of someone/something that has the biggest impact on me

He probably doesn’t even know it yet, but I would have to say that Byong Bark, my roommate and friend, would be the one who takes this award.  :)   Byong is the one of the very few people who I can go to for unbiased advice, an honest opinion, and hilarious stories.  Although he doesn’t like to admit that he’s a soft teddy bear inside that has feelings and emotions, he is the most genuine and honest person I know.  I admire his integrity, intelligence, witty sense of humor, and his uncanning charm with the ladies.  Byong is one of those friends that I do not want to disappoint.  So Byong, if you read this, I want to thank you for being such a great friend and for telling me that I’m being stupid when I do stupid things.  Haha.  You have impacted my life more than you know it.  :)

A group of my friends and I went to the LA Gun Club to celebrate Kyle’s birthday.  Overall, it was a good experience.  I didn’t think much about it when I found out we were going to a shooting range.  I thought, oh this should be fun.  We get to shoot stuff, for REAL!  That all changed when I got there.  We signed papers, gave our fingerprints, and within seconds, they handed us guns and bullets.  All of a sudden, my nerves were getting to me.  I was nervous!  I got a weird feeling when I was holding a gun.  What if the slightest finger/hand movement would set off the gun?  What if it accidentally shoots?  It was a crazy rush.

It was my first time ever shooting a gun.  I think it was a first time for everyone who went!  Within a couple minutes, the gun guys gave us a crash course of how to load and shoot a gun.  After that, they sent us out into the shooting field.  That was it?  They weren’t going to watch us try and shoot for real?  They trust us to just walk around with guns in our hand in a completely different room?  I guess that’s how it works.

As soon as I walked into the shooting room, I was on edge.  The sound of gun shots are loud and SCARY!  I felt so intimidated in there that I was close to tears.  Yeah yeah, call me a pansy.  It was my FIRST time!  Give me a break! :)   Shells were all over the floor, shots were made left and right, the room was cold, and you can see sparks from the guns.  Crazy experience.  They boys definitely had fun trying out different guns.  I stuck to one gun, and shot one time.  That’s good enough for me.   At least now I can say, I’ve shot a gun.

But now the my nerve has calmed down and I think I am ready to go again.  A lot of the girls said they liked the revolver, so I think I will want to try that one too.

Next time!

And again, happy birthday Kyle!  I’m glad we surprised you….with GUNS! :)


The view of downtown Los Angeles from The Standard Hotel

This past week has proven to be one of the busiest weeks that I’ve had in a very long time, and about 70% of it consisted of birthday celebrations.  There was something going on everyday this week, and I’m relieved that it’s over and glad I survived.  Now I can recover and rest.  :)

This week was all about spending time with friends and celebrating birthdays.  It’s nice when a big group of friends come together for another friend’s birthday, and that is all we did this week: go out and have drinks to honor days of births.  Byong’s birthday was last Monday, Sheila’s was last Tuesday, and Jamie’s was last Wednesday.  Jamie had her birthday at Nodaji in Rowland Heights on Wednesday night.  Sheila had hers at Angels & Kings in Hollywood on Thursday.  Both of them had hangovers the day after. :)   Byong isn’t a fan of celebrating his birthday so he was MIA.

Have you ever been to the Century City mall?  Isn’t their parking system AWESOME?  As much as I hate looking for parking at a very busy mall, this parking lot blows out all the rest out there.  I think it’s the coolest thing ever!  Michael, Erin, Warren, and I came here to watch Toy Story 3 and we loved it.  By the time we finished the movie, it was a little after midnight and too late to go anywhere, so we headed back to my place for bagel bites and Rockband!  It was a great spontaneous Friday night.

On Saturday, we had a joint birthday celebration for all 3 of our friends at Swimming with Sharks at The Standard Hotel.  (Johnboy calls it “Swimming with THE Sharks” heheh FOB.)  It was a beautiful summer day to have a roof top pool party.  We had a couple rounds of beers, a couple bottles of champagne, and a very drunk friend named Kyle.  The funny thing about birthdays is that sometimes it becomes another person’s birthday, so in this case it was Kyle’s.  :)   He kept running around saying, “Dude, I’m so smashed man!”  Yeah, he was!  A lot of us have tons of pictures and video of him celebrating his “birthday”. :P   Eventually he was passed out and we had to leave the hotel.  The cool thing about having great friends is that no matter what, they are always there to help you out…..or at least, that’s what they’re supposed to do, right?  So as you could imagine, it nice seeing that we all came together to take care of one drunk Kyle, but at the same time it was HILARIOUS.

Recently, I learned that Michael has never been to the fashion district in downtown Los Angeles, so Erin and I decided we should take him there to see it on Sunday.  I haven’t been to the fashion district in 10 years!  I think it’s always fun checking out that place, especially Santee Alley.  You can’t beat 2 pairs of sunglasses for $5, 2 straw hats for $5, chucks for $20, and hilarious graphic tees.  I found the cutest little shirt for my nephew, and I HAD to get it.  I wanted to post a picture of it, but it’s a gift for this 1st birthday in a couple weeks.  :)   I’ll post it later.

Michael was finally able to find his “rice picker” hat and was able to get 2 different kinds for $5, total! He was really happy about that because he’s been looking everywhere for it.  What a steal, right? You can’t really go wrong with the fashion district.  That place is fun to go to every once in a while.  I definitely need to remember to buy my chucks there from now on.  :)

To top off the my evening, I napped, I ran, and ate dinner while finishing up season 2 of Californication with Michael.

Siiiiigh.  I love my friends.  I love LA.  This place is great, and my friends are awesome.  Life can be great when you allow it to be.

Again, happy birthday to Byong, Sheila, and Jamie!

I love how happiness overflows in this picture.

This summarizes my weekend in a nutshell.

:)

Thank you, LA, for another memorable week.

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